Hubby wants her fiction to spice their lovemaking; Wife makes up scenes of sex with other men -- should she worry?

Dear Ellie: My husband of 15 years has fantasies of other menhaving sex with me while he watches.

I've said that I'm uncomfortable discussing these fantasies. Yetfor six months I've relented and described scenarios while we makelove. We have sexual intercourse every evening, sometimes two orthree times through the night.

My husband is a kind, loving, attentive man. Life with him andour two preteen children is wonderful. He's 10 years younger thanme; I'm in great shape. We both have professional careers.

He says his fantasies are normal, that most men have them. Iwonder if something else is at the root of his fantasies. I have noreason to believe he's …